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Creative Tension-Holding

From the Healing the Heart of Democracy Discussion Guide // Do you have a personal story about a contradiction of the sort described in the quotation—a contradiction you held in a way that turned out to be life-giving for you? For example, have you ever been conflicted about your own beliefs, but managed to hold that conflict in a way that opened you to new beliefs that enhanced your life? If so, what helped you to do that?

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Our lives are filled with contradictions—from the gap between our aspirations and our behavior to observations and insights we cannot abide because they run counter to our convictions. If we fail to hold them creatively, these contradictions will shut us down and take us out of the action. But when we allow their tensions to expand our hearts, they can open us to new understandings of ourselves and our world, enhancing our lives and allowing us to enhance the lives of others. We are imperfect and broken beings who inhabit an imperfect and broken world. The genius of the human heart lies in its capacity to use these tensions to generate insight, energy, and new life. (45)

Q. Do you have a personal story about a contradiction of the sort described in the quotation—a contradiction you held in a way that turned out to be life-giving for you? For example, have you ever been conflicted about your own beliefs, but managed to hold that conflict in a way that opened you to new beliefs that enhanced your life? If so, what helped you to do that?